Wednesday, June 21, 2017

Max's 4th Birthday Party

After being called out on my lack of blogging 
since April, I've returned!  Thank you to Auntie
Stacy, Martha (via Rachel), and Candice for the inspiration! 
I actually have quite a bit to update you all on...
but I figured I would start with the true highlight - 
Max's birthday (and possibly the fact that 
I survived it all). 

I do love parties (and potlucks, duh), and I love Max....so
it probably seems like I should be all about throwing 
a birthday.  But honestly....for awhile I couldn't muster
the energy to get the planning going.  I even maintained we'd
just skip it this year (surely he wouldn't mind).  But, I did 
manage to shake my overall lameness and embrace
Max's chosen theme: Paw Patrol.  Pretty standard
on the four year old party circuit, right?  

I was skeptical at first that I would be able to 
pull off a Paw Patrol theme - but I pinned a ton 
of ideas, went on a Target sized shopping spree,
and things started to take shape.  Once the life size
Chase/Marshall balloon and paw print stamps
started rolling in...we were in business. 

I did really try to keep things simple (while also being cute, 
festive, and fun!) - so we kept the party at the two hour
time slot, under ten kids, and manageable menu (read: pizza). 
And, somehow, even after working at the Zoo until 10:30
the night before, everything worked out. Did I spend 
too much money?  Probably.  But, how often 
does your only child turn four? Exactly. 

I hope you enjoy all the details below! 

One of the first, (and easiest!) ideas I pinned
was using chalk to draw paw prints to lead
guests up to the door. Done and done. 
This picture of our house is really just a shout out to
Papa Rob.  The entire week leading up to the party, 
I fretted (which is a nice way of saying, I got sassy) 
about the shape of the yard.  Having a party
in early May means maybe your yard is in 
questionable shape?  Ours definitely needed
some help.  Papa Rob edged, and mulched
all the flower beds (front and back!).  Hooray!
Definitely ripped some Paw Patrol clip art off of
Google.  Then, tried my best not to care when Max
wanted to cut it out himself.  It's the perfectionist
in me...but once we combined it with the words we
wrote on the door...all good! 
Decided last minute to try and organize a game
of "Pin the bone on the dog".  This game ended up 
being a total flop.  The kids were definitely more
interested in playing with all of Max's toys or 
being outside in the bounce house....which 
of course was totally fine. 
Party balloons...which I always feels are 
totally necessary! 
Table set up - notice those plastic dog bowls I totally
scored at the dollar store.  They were red and 
everything.  Immediately after I purchased them, 
Max let me know that we would not be 
using them at his party - but I was pretty
dead set on it....so I snuck them in there! 
(They go so perfectly with the theme 
and color scheme!  I had too!  I'm sure someday
soon he will start to appreciate my flair 
for party decor?)

The menu included culinary gems like:
"Puperoni Pizza", "Pupcorn", "Fetch Sticks (pretzel stick)",
and even Farmer Yumi's veggies.  Making those food 
name tags gave me such an odd sense of satisfaction. 
As I carried the brownies out to the table, Max said, 
"Uh, Mommy, you forgot to light those
brownies on fire". haha!  I explained that we would 
sing and light the candle a little later on. 
We gave out souvenir cups with Paw Patrol characters
for favors...filled with random crap Paw Patrol trinkets.

 We waited until Sunday morning to do most of the
decorating, because we had run out of time with me 
working, and it just made the most sense.  It also helped
me cut down on overthinking everything. 

One of my favorite moments - was Rob and 
Max working together to hang these dangly 
streamers.  Max loved running between Rob
and I and handing him the streamer.  It was particularly 
adorable because he was saying things like, 
"Daddy, I really like these decorations" and 
"My party's going to be the best". :)  
I think you all probably know that if it was
possible to have a photo booth in my house, I 
absolutely would. But, alas, that hasn't come
to fruition yet - so we settled for the next
best thing - a cardboard photo frame filled
with all our favorite characters!  This was - 
hands down, my favorite part. Max 
was also super into helping me paint, cut, 
and glue all the parts to this! It was fun
to see him get excited :)
The day of the party - my plan was pretty much....invite
people over....and send them outside.  Which was flawless...
except for the forecast...which was COLD (especially, 
because the party started at 11:00).  But, the kids
braved the chill for the bounce house.  I knew that 
ordering the bounce house was so clutch. 
I feel like it SAVED THE PARTY. 
     
In the end, there was just enough sunshine
to be warm...and smiles all around! 
So, I consider that a win. 
When I say he loved the bounce house - 
he LOVED the bounce house.  
(We've set it up nearly every weekend since - 
and in fact, I told Rob, the theme for our
summer should be beers and bounce houses - 
so if you have small children, feel free to 
come right on over!). 

Max's guest list included all of his friends 
from school (mostly girls actually) - and a few
of our friends with kids. All in all - nine kids total. 
And, at one point, all nine of them were on it. 




*We even used the photo frame after the 
party when the grandparents came over! 


Basically, the two hours consisted of -playing and eating, 
and bouncing.  Perfect. 
By the end, we had polished off the pizza and brownies, 
bounced till our hearts content...and even opened 
presents!  
After all the kids left - Max agreed to 
share the bounce house with Titi and Mommy
while maintaining that Daddy would probably
put a hole in it ;)  
 
It was a wild day, and our favorite boy loved
soaking up all the attention from his friends. I know
he probably won't remember the details, and even
if he did - he might not care. But, I hope somewhere
down the line (maybe when he's a parent) - he will recognize
that yes, his parents are crazy.  But, ultimately, we are 
cuckoo crazy over him. We would watch hundreds
of episodes of Paw Patrol, order all the Chase balloons, 
and hang all the streamers to show him how 
much we love him.  

Happy, happy fourth birthday, Maxwell James. 

Wednesday, April 26, 2017

Happy Easter!!

Do you ever have like 23 things on your to do list but 
it all feels so overwhelming that you deliberately
waste time doing other stuff that probably 
doesn't need to happen?  Nope? Me neither. 
But.....here's an Easter post about two 
weeks late because I'm avoiding
all of the other things that need to be done. 
Also, I'm going to go above and beyond
the blogger call of duty and in lieu of adorable
Easter photos (all of which I loved from other families)
and post a few mediocre family Easter photos with
some details I remember from the weekend.  
Our Easter weekend began on Saturday
with Rob and I driving over to Dayton
(Max was already there from his Spring
Break 2017 week-o-fun).   We left almost
immediately for an egg hunt at Forest Field
Park again.  In our rush to leave the house we left
his jacket behind..#parentfail....so Grandpa and Papa Rob
left to retrieve it and barely made it back
to see Max reluctantly pick up a few green
eggs.  He maintained that he already
had eggs at home..and honestly I think the 
hyped up "competition" part of it was
stressing him out. 
 
 
We were trying to kill some time 
before this food truck rally at Home Depot....
so we went off to one of my favorite spots
in Dayton (especially in the spring!!)
Cox Arboretum....because
#plantladyforlife and it did not 
disappoint...Max had fun counting
and point out turtles in the pond, 
climbing the rocks, pointing out the 
new bridge, and running between
the rows of crab apple trees :)
 
 

(Still trying to get the perfectly timed
jumping shot of everyone). :)
 
 (Gotta stop and smell those lilacs!!)
 Max was literally so excited every time
he spotted a turtle.

 He was getting tired of walking...so
he settled for his favorite perch atop Papa Rob. :)
We ate lunch at this food truck rally thing
at the local Home Depot before heading
back home and getting down to the business 
of dying Easter Eggs!

 
 
 Initially, Max let us know he would just
be supervising this egg dying task...
but I knew that wouldn't last long. 
As soon as the eggs came out and his 
stool got pulled up to the counter...he
was bossing everyone around!
 
 
 
Even at 35 years old ....this tradition
never gets old.  I still LOVE it!!
And I love having all the extra
hard boiled eggs around after :)
 Papa Rob is known for coming up with 
super weird color patterns on his eggs...
Auntie Stacy left hers in a couple different
colors until she achieved the perfect "mauve" 
and Max was definitely the splasher...plopping
the eggs in with reckless abandon. :) 
 Also - random but helpful tidbit from Mims - 
she has kept literally what seems to be every
egg dipper and tool that we've used over the
years...and so we have lots of "equipment"
to dye our eggs with.  The "egg tongs" were
quite helpful for little hands. 
The night ended with a trip to the park
and carry out pizza from Marions (yum!). 
This worked out well for the Easter Bunny...
who had a lot of work to do! :)

*Somehow* the Easter Bunny
managed to cram too many a lot of
presents into a tiny Paw Patrol Easter 
Basket (that Mims was coerced into
purchasing even though Mama gave 
a hard no). The bunny hid the basket under
the desk at Mim's house.
(sidenote: Max asked me as he was
falling asleep if the Easter
bunny was a real bunny or pretend? 
And I panicked and sort of glossed
over the details of that....)
 Max was pleased with his spoils...
a new Paw patrol cup, bath tabs, 
bubbles, band aids, a small set of Legos....
and it seemed the Easter Bunny had 
a soft spot for books...*ahem*
 
 
 He did mostly okay at church...except 
for telling us 152 times that he was 
"ready to go home" (insert eye roll). 
So I ended up holding him for the last 20 
minutes or so...which wasn't awesome
but it was manageable. 

Our Easter Brunch was at the Station House
(which is part of St.Leonard's) -the pros being
someone else preparing the food and cleaning 
the mess.  The cons being Mims got real pissed
when we got charged for orange juice and coffee
(which we though were part of the brunch 
package)....but I didn't hate one bit of my 
bacon, sausage, and omelet creation. :) 
In fact, I ate it all.  
The above is literally the only picture we got
of everyone in their Easter finest....because
we spent the rest of the day relaxing...eating 
jelly beans (okay, that was just me) - and 
making up "scavenger hunts" for Max. 

Hope you had a Hoppy Happy Easter! 
xoxo
p.s. my mom still had a small honey baked
ham for "second brunch" and it was delish
p.p.s. Max wore his new paw patrol jammies
on the ride home....passed out...but woke
up in time to demand more bedtime stories. 
p.p.p.s. I forgot to take all the extra
hard boiled eggs (picture real sad Carrie face emoji here).  
Alleluia to you and yours!