Wednesday, October 28, 2015

Captiva 2015

Edited to add:  Blogger says this is my 250th post! Wow! Apparently I have
a lot to say?  Thanks for hanging around with the Haucks for the last three years ...
and don't worry, we've got more adventures to come! :)
 
It's been super quiet around the nest for a bit and that's mostly because
we flew down to Florida for a week!  If you've been reading this blog
for any length of time - you will know that we Haucks love Sanibel/Captiva Island. 
(In fact, if you check the archives, you will see that I've blogged about it three other times!)

This year we got smart and decided to plan our trip in the month of October.
(Last year we went in August and it was basically like walking on the 
face of the sun every time we went out the door). 
The flight down was pretty uneventful (though very, very early).
Max watched the i-Pad and Rob and I took turn snoozing. 
Upon landing we had to kill some time before being able to check
into our house, so you know we went straight to the outlets
and then ate lunch at our favorite island bar - the Lazy Flamingo. 


Max was obsessed with throwing rocks in their waterfall out front
and spending all our quarters in the mini vending machines. 
In fact he only agreed to the above picture because 
I let him throw "just one more rock" in the water. 

Finally at 4:00 (which seems like an eternity when you've 
actually been on the island since 11) - we arrived at our 
rental house mansion for the week! It was called the White Pelican. 

                                      

From the minute we set foot in the house and changed into 
our swim suits, we spent a great deal of our time at the beach. 
The beach was just feet from our back door. 
Max was loving the "stepping stones" which were in the shape
of sand dollars.  At the end of the sand dollar trail, he would 
usually request to be picked up and carried the rest of the way. 
And because he's pretty irresistible, we usually obliged. 


We would usually spend some time at the beach in the morning.  
This would look like one person carrying Max, and the other person 
struggling to carry all the beach toys, towels, chairs etc. in a laundry basket. 
The beach was pretty fantastic.  You could usually look
out and spot dolphins.  And you couldn't walk a foot without
running into shells. The shells were my favorite. The sand was Max's 
favorite. I couldn't believe it, but he let us bury him in the sand up to his neck!  
We also had obstacle courses in the sand...threw the frisbee...
tossed a ball into the waves and chased it down the beach...
and had numerous races (because Max loves to say, 
ready, set, go!) 

We were also conned into building many, many sand castles. 


However the sand castles never really made it to their 
full potential because Max loved to squash them with his
bootie.  He would just walk from pillar to pillar and sit right
on top. What a silly boy! 


As we drove over the bridge to get on the island, Max
immediately noticed people sailing kites.  So, we decided
to purchase a small kite in the shape of an airplane. 
I kind of forgot about it until one afternoon when we 
were trying to coax Max down to the beach after his nap. 
I mentioned the kite and he was all about it. 
The only problem was - it wasn't super windy this particular 
afternoon, so the kite didn't go too high. 
But, it was still fun to see Papa Rob work his flying muscles!


Sanibel is known for it's shells but the beaches are also 
home to some pretty neat birds too!  Nearly every
time we walked, we would see Great Blue Herons
and flocks of gulls and terns.  The White Ibis 
are a little more elusive, but we managed to spot them 
several times too. You can always see osprey and pelican
overhead ...and dolphins are commonly sighted too!


Every afternoon when Max went down for his nap, my mom, Stacy, 
and I would hit the beach. As much as I would have loved to stay back
and kick my feet up - I couldn't let those gals get ahead of me on the
fit bit competition. But more than that - I really do love to look for shells.
I started the week looking for coquinas (those pictured above).  The
shore birds open them with their beaks and leave them on the beach.
They come in all colors and I couldn't help but pick them all up!
Mid week when my eyes were sore from picking up the tiny shells,
I turned my focus to shells I could potentially string on a garland.
I'm also always looking for beach glass....though down there it's
hard to come by.
 
 
Max would wake up pretty reliable around 6:30 or
if we were lucky - 7:00 - so some mornings I would
put him in the Ergo and carry him on my back down the beach.
The first morning he ate a chocolate donut and then
wanted down to chase the waves with Auntie Stacy.
Other mornings he just wanted to go build sand castles...
And still yet a different morning - he was content
to swing and climb all over the Adirondack chairs on
the beach. Time at the beach with Max is always fun :)


Another great thing about the beach (that we'd never seen
until this year) was Joey's ice cream boat.  Joey
rides up and down the beach selling ice cream, pop, water,
and other treats from the back of his boat. It's kind all kinds of
awesome. The first day we didn't have any cash.
The second day, I ran all the way to the house to grab some
and by the time I got back, he had pulled away. Womp, womp.
But, he must have seen my completely deflated spirit
(or grandmim waving him over again) -so he pulled
up further down the beach and we finally got delicious ice cream!
It was melting quick - so we gobbled it up
and went back the next day for more!
 


When we tired of the beach (or it got to hot!) - we headed back
to the pool. You may remember last year, we purchased
a turtle floatie.  This year we decided to add a chameleon and
a lobster to the mix!  These animals provided numerous
amounts of silly entertainment for us. Nearly every time
we tried to get on them - someone would roll off causing
hysterical laughter from all watching on the sides.
We did lots of water races, jumps off the side,
hand sand contests, and inner tube floating.
 

 
The other really cool little feature of the pool was
the built in cocktail/lunch/party table!  Max first used
this little table to jump off of, then he drove his plastic
toys off the side, and on the last day he started to play
"bootie shop" (beauty shop) - complete with flinging two buckets
over his shoulder and declaring he was "going to work".
He loved dumping buckets of water on his grandparents
heads and mixing potions to use as shampoos and gel.

 
It's safe to say we all enjoyed the pool....and really
just the time to relax. Also, admittedly, it was nice
to have extra hands around to entertain our
energetic toddler. Mims, Gramps, and Titi were
quick to jump in with fun new games or ways
to distract him when a melt down was looming...
for which we are ever so grateful.
 
 
We look forward to this vacation every year.
It's been so cool to see Max's progression of confidence
at the beach and the pool over our last three visits.
He went from barely wanting to put his toes in the
sand to throwing his whole body down in it (repeatedly)
this year.  As I've mentioned in previous travel posts -
it's not always easy traveling with a toddler (who still sleeps
in a crib, loves his schedule, and can't sit for too long at dinner)
but in the end being with family trumps everything else.
We are grateful for my 93 year grandpa for continuing to
make this trip a priority and hope to come back again (and soon)!

Thursday, October 15, 2015

Loving Where You Live

Like most everyone, I have a lot of insecurities. Rob would 
probably be the first to tell you that one of my biggest 
insecurities is our house (which he is also quick to point 
out is completely unfounded).  But, I am one of those people
who tends to over analyze every.little.thing. 
I also can't help but compare (which is also not productive). 
I'm quick to get down on myself about the size of our house. 
The number of bedrooms.  The number of bathrooms. 
The lack of seating when it's more than just us. And on and on. 
Please tell me I'm not alone in this? 

(our house just about a month after we moved in - 
the huge bush blocking the front door is 
no longer there - thank god). 

But, recently a scrapbooker I follow on Instagram
started teaching a class called "Loving Where you Live". 
While, I'm not enrolled in the class or participating 
in any of the challenges... I started to think about how if I could 
just change my attitude a little bit, things would be so much better. 
(I mean an attitude change in general is probably a good idea when
faced with any form of negativity - house or otherwise). 
So, I decided to stop whining and be really grateful for this
little house of ours and all it's memories.  

(a picture of me at our first family holiday gathering - 
Easter 2010 at our house) 

This house has hosted lots of parties (Rob's 30th surprise
party, baby showers, jewelry parties, and Max's birthdays to name a few), and 
countless holiday gatherings.  It has just enough room for our 
immediate family and overflow space in the kitchen should we 
choose to invite more. (side note: getting the kitchen island with some of our 
wedding money was a great life choice). 


We welcomed our first pet (as a couple) into this home. 
Miss Pecan Sandy (our cat) still lives with us - and even 
though she does not get nearly the same amount of love
and attention as pre Max - it was one of the bigger decisions 
Rob and I decided to make together. 


We got engaged in this house. Rob completely surprised
me the Friday before I was running the Columbus half marathon
and was waiting at the end of our front hallway with a ring
and all of my other favorite things (see above: skittles, cupcakes, and 
champagne). 


We've had the ability/time/money etc. to take on countless
home improvement projects.  The first major project
was completely demolishing our old deck and building
a new one.  It took Rob way longer than we thought it would
(don't all home projects end up this way??) - but 
it was completely worth it. I grew up with parents 
who hired that kind of stuff out....so it's been an interesting
process combining our two view points on home improvement. 


We've painted every.single.room.in.our.house.
We painted the master bedroom the summer
after we got married on one of the hottest days of the summer.
I wanted to kill Rob because painting is not even a little bit fun. 
But - thank goodness for sisters who bring frosties from Wendy's. 
Having a little house means the painting projects get done pretty quick too!


Since painting we've also completely ripped out the former
plastic brown trim and terrible doors and replaced every single one. 
We got new appliances.  Just this summer we replaced the horrible
sliding door with a brand new one.  We got a whole new 
HVAC system about three years ago.  And we decorated a nursery!


We've carved pumpkins here. Dyed eggs here.  Put up
Christmas trees and opened presents.  We've had fights here. 
We've said I love you's here. We've planned trips here. 
We've rearranged (and rearranged) here. But perhaps
one of the most important things we've done here - 
is bring our son home. 



This is the only house he knows.
He took one of his first baths in our family room.
He started crawling right across our family room floor.
He took his first steps in our master bedroom.
We've watched his art work slowly fill up the walls of our
kitchen. And his sippy cups and plates have their
own special spot under our island.
 

I know he doesn't think, "man I wish my parents
would replace all the windows and spring for the cement driveway". 
So, when I get down on myself for not having a bigger,
more glamorous house - I will remind myself that,
"Small homes grow tight families".

 
And I will be grateful for every minute we spend
together in this house....and all the memories we're making.
xoxo

Wednesday, October 14, 2015

October Currently


Digging: that Max is into using his new "safety scissors" to cut paper.  He loves to cut paper.  It looks like a ticker tape parade under my kitchen island because of all the paper droppings.  He also discovered my stash of washi tape and likes to use to stick the paper pieces down.

Eating: Cinnamon Toast Crunch for breakfast (with Max) - and salami/cheese sandwiches for lunch because it sounded good when grocery shopping.

Listening: to "Max's CD" in the morning on the way to school and Garth Brooks greatest hits when Max is not in the car

Drinking: Pumpkin Spice Lattes and Earl Grey Tea Lattes

Wearing: jeans and sweatshirts now that the weather is cooler /also super cute boots I got at TJ Max (they are flat boots and look great with a rolled jean cuff at the bottom)

Reading: Just finished the book Delancey: A man, a woman, a restaurant, a marriage. (It's by Molly Wizenberg - who wrote A Handmade Life, and also authors a very popular blog called Orangette)

Feeling: excited about our upcoming vacation!  We are leaving on Saturday for a week long trip to Florida!

Weather: there's definitely a fall chill in the air - and I love it :)

Wanting: hair that will blow dray and straighten itself every morning? new clothes?  More boots!  

Needing: a few more hours every night to get everything done!

Wishing: that Max would commit to one Halloween costume!  Currently when you ask him he says pirate. But, I'm hoping that he will go back to wanting to be a Tiger (since we already have that costume).

Watching:  Mindy Project (on Hulu), You're the Worst (on FXx), and I'm thinking about starting Bloodlines (recommended by people at work).  Also, Paw Patrol if I'm with Max.

Enjoying: my fall porch decorations :)  And all of Max's driveway chalk art.

Loving:  My New fit bit and the competitive nature it has brought out on me.  I'm in two "Work Week Hustle" challenges - it's totally a great motivator!

Wednesday, October 7, 2015

Lynd's Fruit Farm

So...here's the thing about the season of fall - we all know it won't last. 
A few glorious weeks and then, poof!  It's gone. 
And, while it feels like the shortest of seasons -it's easily 
the most brilliant.  The trees are turning the most gorgeous shades of red, orange, and yellow              (thanks to a good rain)... there are mini gourds galore (thanks to Max), 
apples abound (thanks to Lynd's fruit farm), and well - 
we intend to celebrate all that to the fullest...which is kind of how 
we found ourselves at Lynd's Fruit Farm this week (even though we've 
already been to like four other pumpkin farms). 

And this visit - well it was truly a celebration of all things fall!


We started at the farm market...
(would you look at the size of those mums!!)..


And the farm market had a minion made of hay.... so
that was pretty exciting :)


We also made time to sit in the apple chair
(could Max's grin BE any bigger - please read that 
in your best Chandler Bing voice.  And if you don't 
understand that reference, I'm not sure we can 
be friends). 


We kept trying to get Max to pick a pumpkin - 
but he just wanted to stand among pumpkins. 
In true Carrie fashion - I picked the one with the most
glorious stem. Some might find it ridiculous to 
pay $13 for a pumpkin - but all in the name of fall 
you know ;)  And if it's going to sit on your 
porch until Thanksgiving, it better be a good looking pumpkin. 


We measured ourselves - and Max finally stood
still long enough to get a picture.  Then, he wanted
Mama to get measured, and then Mims to get measured,
and then repeat times three.  I think we're all pretty clear
on how tall we are. 


He finally settled on this pumpkin (above).  And 
every time we went to take a picture of it - he put 
it directly in front of his face.  This was the only decent picture
I got before he decided he no longer wanted to be carrying it any more. 


Have you ever had an apple cider slushie?  
Oh man, they are so delish!  I didn't get much 
of this one though because Max commandeered it away 
from me like 3.2 seconds after they poured it. He kept 
sucking all the cider out of the bottom of it and 
wondering why the ice looked funny on the top. 

After all the fun at the Farm Market - we waited in 
a gigantic traffic jam in order to make our way to the play area. 
I forgot to ask Max if he needed to go to the bathroom before 
we left (#momfail) and then three minutes after sitting in 
aforementioned traffic - he pronounced that he did in fact
have to go potty.  I told him to squeeze his legs together
and hold it.  And then I squeezed my hands together
and prayed. Hard. 


As luck would have it - we made it there - accident free!
He peed right outside the car (why is peeing outside always
so exciting??) and then ran right over to the play area.

Please note - he wanted to go up this enormous hill, 
so we did. At the top, he picked the muddiest, steepest
path to go down - so I grabbed his hand.  He promptly
fell on his bottom, meanwhile I'm dragging him behind 
me because I can't stop because the hill's so steep. 
We make it to the bottom and he announces to everyone
within hearing distance that "mommy dragged me down the hill"
and then I check his pants and it basically looks like
he pooped himself from all the mud.  
However, he didn't seem to mind (probably because he couldn't
see it) so we carried on. 


We did the barrel train (he chose the caboose spot this time),
bounce house, spider web (cargo net), hay bales, mini corn 
maze, and even climbed to the top of the wooden tower. 


We finished with a tractor ride out to the apple orchards - 
where we were allowed to pick one apple. 
It was a Jonagold - and it was very tasty!


The tractor driver let Max "drive" and as you
can see from the picture above - he totally hated it :)
What a cheese!


By the time we made it back - Max had eaten half his apple
and half the bag of kettle corn.  No joke - this boy takes after his dad - loves 
himself some kettle corn.  


It was such an adventurous morning at Lynd's Fruit Farm!
All of the farms we visit have your token
fall activities - bounce house, barrel train, corn maze and so on -
but they all are just different enough that there is something
new and fun to try at each one!  Max had so much
fun he fell asleep on the drive home (after telling Mims and
mommy, who got slightly lost to "calm down" - who is this kid?!)
He was probably dreaming of more kettle corn
and our next pumpkin adventure ;) I know I am!

xoxo

Sunday, October 4, 2015

Max, Mama, and Papa - September Edition 2015

Every month it seems I'm later and later on these reports (perhaps because we're
spending every weekend at the pumpkin patch?). Even still - I'm so happy to have
another month on the books.  You can certainly tell it's fall around here!
 
Here is what Mama, Max (28 months), and Papa were into during September 2015.
(From left to right - Papa, Max, and Mama)
 
DRINKING:  IPA's, Juice Boxes, and Iced Chai Tea's

EATING:  Kettle Corn, Mac and Cheese, and Halloween Oreos
*the kettle corn is obviously a by-product of all the pumpkin farm visits.

LOVING: the sleep app, balls/basketball, volcano candle from Anthro
                                   *probably the most expensive candle I've ever                                         
purchased but the smell is just divine!
**Rob loves the sleep app and we use it in Max's room too and it seems to
really relax him.

MAKING:  popsicles, musical requests, hand soap from my oils
*Rob bought these popsicle molds for all the leftover
smoothies and they freeze so well - it was totally genius
**Grandpa Jim sent Max this CD last year and he'
still SO into it - he will say "my CD" or "my songs mommy"
 
READING:  library books, his custom Oregon book, and the Athleta catalogue
*I made Max this Oregon book from Pinhole Press after our trip
and he loves is.  There is a picture on each page and then a word next to it.
He asks us to "read it" nearly every night and we just recall all of the memories
and make it up on the fly.  But, it's a great way to keep the conversation going
about our trip!

WATCHING: Supernatural, Octonauts, and Playing House

WEARING: sunglasses, new gym shoes, Fit Bit
*Max got new shoes just after we got back from Oregon
and he jumped from a size 7 to a 9! We could have
gotten away with an 8.5 but decided once socks were on
that bigger would be better.
**My mom and sister and I all participate in these
"work week challenges using the fit bit and it's completely
frustrating and motivating all at the same time!

WORKING ON: his fantasy football line up, tooth brushing, sending snail mail
 
I'm so happy it's fall around here!  We Haucks are trying to
soak up every last minute of our outdoor time - Max riding around
on his tractor, Rob making the final attempts at winterizing the yard,
and me puttering around with the porch décor.
I fear we may go stir crazy in the winter - that or we
may binge watch all of the seasons of Octonauts while
hiding in our blanket fort :)
xoxo